Your Attachment Style Reveals Your Relationship With God
Let's talk about your unconscious connection with the Divine
When I say everything is connected—I truly mean it.
In recent years, there’s been a growing collective awareness around attachment theory—a framework that helps us understand the unconscious ways we form bonds based on our earliest relationships, especially with caregivers in childhood.
But what if your attachment style doesn’t just show up in romantic or platonic relationships…
What if it also reveals something profound about your relationship with the Divine?
Let’s break it down:
If you lean toward anxious attachment, you might find yourself constantly questioning whether God—or any higher power—is really listening. There's a deep yearning for connection, often laced with fear of abandonment.
If you’re more avoidant, you may find it hard to trust in something greater than yourself. Belief might feel like a vulnerability you’ve trained yourself to avoid.
And if you identify as fearful-avoidant (a complex blend of both and one I know very well), you could crave deep spiritual connection, but simultaneously feel skeptical, disillusioned, or betrayed—hesitant of fully surrendering because life has taught you not to expect consistency or care.
As I often say, the micro reflects the macro.
Our lived experiences are mirrors—constantly echoing the deeper, more archetypal patterns at play in our inner world.
Your relationship style isn’t just about who texts back, who shows up, or who doesn’t.
It’s also about how you connect to Source.
To trust.
To surrender.
To feeling safe in something unseen.
I dive deeper into this idea in the TikTok below. Give it a watch and let me know your thoughts ✨
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