you're not broken, you're looping.
Diving into the next era of what it means to return to Self.
I’ve been quietly building something behind the scenes. Not just a fresh makeover for my website—but a home for the work I’ve been evolving into.
Over the years, one pattern has shown up again and again in my sessions, my inbox, and my own life…
People don’t come to this work because they’re broken. They come because they’re looping.
Repeating relationships. Repeating emotional reactions. Repeating the same inner arguments. Repeating cycles they intellectually understand… but can’t seem to exit.
And usually, underneath the loop, there’s something waiting to be integrated.
An unprocessed grief. An unlived truth. A younger version of the self still holding the steering wheel.
I know this very well.
My loops were publicized for the world to witness, both through my blog The Problem With Dating and my book, Let That Shit Go: A Journey to Forgiveness, Healing, and Understanding Love.
My dating patterns were clear alarm bells at something much deeper needing to be recognized, and they only became that much louder when printed on the page… one chapter after another.
An example of how obvious certain shadows can be, and yet integrating its wisdom into applied practice isn’t always as easy.
Although my ego loves to argue that it would’ve been better to just keep all of those intimate stories hidden and tucked away, my spirit knew the assignment—it’s evidence.
Evidence for the work I’m doing. Evidence for how potent it is. Evidence that it’s possible to be intelligent, charismatic, self-aware and yet still caught in this karmic loop from Hell that can feel out of your control, but actually is.
I’ve always said that I’m my biggest case study with my work, and you’ve been along for that ride every step of the way. There’s value in that.
As an avid intellectualizer who often felt safer in my head than in my body, I was living proof that there’s no true depth to healing if you’re not willing to go where the loops live…
Knowing why something happens or why you act a certain way is just the first step, and while I’m quite good at connecting the dots and bringing awareness to the forefront (which will always be embedded in my work), the true magick is what you do with that information.
That’s where we are now.
My new website reflects the work I’m most devoted to—shadow integration, astrology as a healing language, and intuitive guidance rooted in embodiment rather than prediction.
Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll find within my new framework of services and offerings:
Your Year Ahead Insight Readings
A soul-level look at your themes, transits, and initiations for the birth year ahead. Available as a PDF-only reading or PDF + integration call. Limited availability.
Shadow Work Through Tarot & Poetry
In-person monthly workshops and guided spaces to explore the unconscious through ritual, writing, and archetypes associated with the corresponding full moon. Our next workshop is Feb. 4!
Integration Sessions
For those navigating transitions, relational patterns, or spiritual awakenings and seeking grounded support.
Integration Partnerships
For those who are ready to deepen their commitment with ongoing 1:1 work and intensive support. Limited availability.
Upcoming Offerings & Events
Including classes, circles, and new writing I’m finally ready to share.
This work is for the ones who feel emotionally aware but still stuck, spiritually open but craving grounding, ready to stop looping and start integrating.
You don’t need another manifestation technique. You need space to tell the truth.
And honesty, as I’m continuously learning, is the real beginning of healing.
You can explore the new site here.
Here’s to the next leg of this incredible journey.
Xo


Beautifully handled. I’m subscribing and excited to keep reading your work. I recently explored this emotional terrain in The Breakup Menu.